‘ My low sexual drive means my spouse is threatening to ‘find it somewhere else”

‘ My low sexual drive means my spouse is threatening to ‘find it somewhere else”

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The situation

I’m with my partner eighteen years, we have three kids together since we were in our early twenties, and. Both of us work full-time while having a life that is busy house. Our sex-life never really restored after our first son or daughter, or not towards the degree it had been pre-kids.


We once had intercourse 3 to 4 times each week once we first met – per day during the extremely start – and today we’re fortunate when we do so about when every six days, often because personally i think pressurised into it.

My hubby is certainly going angry and states he’d cheerfully have intercourse 3 times each week. He claims he’s got been patient and waited when it comes to young ones to find yourself in decent rest habits and our life to modify it but is now at the point of needing an active sex life or potentially having to find it elsewhere before he has really pushed.

That’s the 1st time he’s threatened (it was more exasperation if I’m truthful) having an event or one-night stand or presumably having to pay I didn’t ask any questions for it. But I have been made by it think. I am aware we have to be having more intercourse but We just don’t feel just like it.

I’m like our libidos are totally incompatible and generally, I’d rather that is much or watch a movie together. I end up enjoying it but not enough to fast-track the next session when we do have sex. More →